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Queer Grief Ritual

An invitation to drop into the landscape of our grief as it lives in our queer bodies. An opportunity to be surrounded by fellow queers as we create a space together where we can unburden the parts of ourselves that sorely need ritual and community to heal. White settler culture generally conditions us to grieve alone, and as queers, we tend to be even more susceptible to isolation.

An innate ancestral skill, this ritual invites us to drop into the primal intelligence of our emotional bodies through song, shrine-making and rhythm. Thanks and praise to the Dagara people, specifically Dr. Malidoma Somé (as well as beloved recent ancestor Sobonfu Somé), who have taken action to help correct some of the deep illnesses and imbalances of this country through sharing their wisdom and rituals with us. For more information about Malidoma and how he came to share and teach his traditions here on Turtle Island, please visit malidoma.com and check out his offerings and books.

Join us for a day among the ponderosa pines in the foothills of Boulder for Queer Nature’s version of the Dagara grief ritual, as taught to queer leader, Wendy Kaas, by Dagara mentor and elder, Dr. Malidoma Some.

Due to the nature of this ritual, one must commit to the entire time to co-create this container. Please, make sure you are able to promptly arrive on time and be able to stay until the end so that we build a strong container together.

Location will be disclosed upon registration. Click here to register!

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Queer Mountain Quest

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An epic journey into nature, self, truth, and community for LGBTQ2IA+ youth ages 13-18

Rite of Passage Journeys has answered a community call to provide meaningful rites of passage for queer* youth in an inclusive, safe and healing way. On this two-week nature-based adventure, participants will find support, challenge, and mentoring along their unique journeys from adolescence to adulthood, offering rich opportunities to deepen into their queer identities, come together in queer community and build enduring relationships with nature and self. Through both facilitated and self-led explorations, youth will discover inner resources that allow them to claim their identities and particular gifts to offer the world.

The first week centers around a backpacking journey through the mountains (Klallam Land / Olympic National Park, WA), where participants will learn outdoor skills and work together to form a solid group culture. Old-growth forests of cedar and fir and star-studded skies will help form the container for the youth to begin to drop into their individual intentions while supported by queer peers and mentors. After a day of hiking or meandering in an alpine meadow, participants will gather by fire in talking circles to explore their deeper questions of Self and World, and bear witness to others’ stories.

In the second week, participants will enter the coastal section (Quileute Land) and traverse along wild beaches, forests, and headlands along the Pacific Ocean. These powerful places will partner with youth to support them in courageously stepping into their 48-hour solo vigils. Vigils are offered as an opportunity for youth to be fully with themselves, to consider their unique callings and receive guidance from the wild world. Afterwards, youth will engage in mindful integration of their newfound skills and visions. Participants will return to base camp in celebration of their journey and learnings, greeted by family, friends, mentors and community.

Cost: Please inquire about our sliding scale fee. No one is turned away for inability to pay.

Gear: Additional resources and gear loans are available.

*We acknowledge that the word “queer” has been used in the past as a derogatory term and is still hurtful to some in the LGBTQIA+ community. Many LGBTQIA+ communities and individuals have reclaimed the word “queer” as an empowering and uniting expression of the many complex identities within the community. Here, we use “queer” as an inclusive term and an uplifting declaration. 


  • Increased self-confidence and reclaiming of inner strength
  • Increased sense of belonging in the human and natural world
  • Insight into nature as a queer ancestor
  • Insight into queer futurism, hope and resiliency
  • Understanding and honoring of intersectionality within queer communities
  • Increased leadership and teamwork skills
  • Increased ability to listen to intuition
  • Improved physical strength and personal resolve
  • Knowledge of natural history of Northwest terrain
  • Increased knowledge of low-impact camping techniques
  • Understanding of a healthful path to queer adulthood
  • Completion of a transformative rite of passage   

For more information: http://riteofpassagejourneys.org/wilderness-programs/ages-14-18/queer-mountain-quest

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